Her Ex

So we are getting ready to get married soon, yes that's right soon. On top of that I have to keep dealing with her Ex. We have been together for like 7 months and so he can't let us be happy, can't let her go. Her and I almost ended and she gave him some new hope that was dashed when we stayed together. Still I have to deal with this, he told her on valentines day in a card about his undying love for her. I'm sorry that is completely inappropriate he, he has zero respect for our relationship, none at all. Except I have to deal with this and it's okay cuz he's perfect and doing nothing wrong in her eyes but i speak up about it and i'm the bad guy. Well I hope that I get the respect that I deserve after we're married. Right now I feel like when he comes over to see Drayke that I don't belong here and I should leave so no one feels uncomfortable. I'm not even allowed to show her any love or emotion in front of him. I'm left out at times, I just hope it changes soon. I have decided to add to this post a little bit. Back story would be that the other day we had a moment together so that she suddenly saw the GREAT in us. So now we are better than ever, we at her request even moved the wedding up. that's how serious she has become about us. I am positive that we are going to make it now, no matter what we are soo strong and stronger than more relationships after decades of being together. I am sure however that if anything could come between us it would be the way we each feel about her Ex. So I hope that I can move past him. And accept the way that she feels towards him. If not then I will miss this... I believe that I can only because I love her that much with my everything but I will understand if we arent meant to be unlike him. She wrote him a message on facebook telling him that she didnt want to be with him anymore, and he wrote back saying that he could work just as hard as i have and he would love to continue down this path with her but oh he understands and hopes she's happy, what a load of crap, boo hoo. I don't buy it, i just see him as still trying to nudge in but slightly realizing that he can't. She said oh but i ripped his heart out, well it didn't sound like it in his message, sounded like his last ditch effort to win before quiting. I doubt I'll ever truly let this all go, i may just go numb to its effects.... Well till next time.